Dark Tantra Temple Community Policy

Our Event Tiers

Dark Tantra Temple events come in three tiers. Each has its own container, its own intensity, and its own entry requirements.

Group Access & Member Accountability

• You must be 18 or older to apply or attend any event.
• Every person must apply individually. No shared accounts. No couple profiles.
• Every individual must complete their own Consent & Play Party Etiquette Course before attending any Pink or Red tier event.
• Don't message people you don't know (except the hosts or admins) without consent.

This is a space for connection, not cold approaches. Ask first. Respect the container.

Safety, Privacy & Conduct

• Consent isn't a trend. It's the foundation. If you're not clear on that, check out the consent course again.
• What happens in the Temple stays in the Temple. No screenshots, no name-dropping, no retelling stories that aren't yours.
• If something feels off or unsafe, speak to a host or Temple Monitor immediately.

Substance Policy

Our events are substance-free. No alcohol. Cannabis is okay, 420 friendly. Guests are expected to arrive sober and stay embodied.

Showing up heavily impaired means being turned away or removed. Anything that pulls you out of your body pulls you out of consent.

Ticket Guest Rules

If you bring a guest to an event, the tier of your ticket determines who they can be.

• White tier events: you can bring anyone. Partners, friends, someone new to all of this. No restrictions.
• Pink and Red tier events: you can only bring existing Dark Tantra Temple members. Someone who isn't a member yet needs to apply first.

This keeps our play spaces held by people who've done the work to get in.

The Six Agreements (Pink and Red Events)

At every Pink and Red tier event, we share these six agreements at the start. Holding them together is what makes the container work.

1. 1. Presence. The phones go away. When you walk through the door, you're walking from the outside world into a temple. Be here. Be with the people in the room. Be with yourself. Whatever's waiting for you out there can wait a little longer.
2. 2. Confidentiality. What happens in the Temple stays in the Temple. No photos, no screenshots, no retelling stories that aren't yours. If you need to process what came up with a therapist, partner, or trusted friend, that's yours to do. Just don't name names or share what other people shared with you. Privacy is what lets people show up honestly.
3. 3. Autonomy. You are responsible for stating your boundaries and your desires. No one in this space is a mind reader. If you want something, ask for it. If you don't want something, say so. Your job is to know yourself well enough to speak for yourself. We'll meet you where you are.
4. 4. No yucking someone's yum. If you see something that isn't your thing, approach it with curiosity or look away. Play looks different for everyone, and what isn't for you might be someone else's deepest medicine. You don't have to understand it. You do have to respect it.
5. 5. Respect relationship agreements. Whatever agreements you made with your partner or partners before walking in here stay that way. Don't renegotiate mid-event because you're erotically charged. It's not worth the emotional paperwork. If something shifts for you in the room, hold it. Don't act on it. Talk to your partner after. That's where the trust lives.
6. 6. Consent. Enthusiastic, informed, revokable. That's the floor, not the ceiling. Every "no" is honored with "thank you for taking care of yourself." Every "yes" is given freely or it doesn't count. You can change your mind mid-scene. You can change your mind before a scene. You can change your mind after a scene has started. We build this muscle together every time we come in.

Aftercare

Aftercare is negotiated between you and the people you play with. Talk about what you'll each need after, before the scene starts. The Temple provides the edges: water, snacks, a quiet space to land, and light cuddling with a scene partner if it's agreed to. Beyond that, aftercare is between you and the people you played with.

Violations & Accountability

We are building a community rooted in accountability, integrity, and growth. That means we take every violation seriously, but we also recognize that people are human.

So what happens if something goes down?

• A statement form will be submitted by everyone involved (whether it's two or more people).
• The form(s) will be reviewed by the hosts and admins.
• From there, we decide on the outcome based on the severity, context, and willingness to take accountability.

Not every violation means you're out, but some absolutely do.

Event Tickets & Refund Policy

All ticket sales are final. We don't give refunds.

If you can't make it, you may request a voucher to use for a future event. To get your voucher, you must message Sir Pocketz in a private DM before the event starts. After the event? That ticket becomes a donation to the Temple.